Respectful Hiring Guide for Sex Workers

Interactions with sex workers should be based on mutual respect and appreciation for the time and effort of both parties. Here are some key points for clients to establish a proper and respectful hiring process.
 

1. Initial Introduction
   When contacting a sex worker, it is important to introduce yourself politely and clearly:

   • Initial Greeting: Start with a friendly greeting.
   • Introduction: Provide your name (or an alias if you prefer to remain anonymous).
   • Intention: Briefly explain what you are looking for in terms of services.
   • Date and Time: Indicate when you would like to schedule the meeting. Example: "Hello, my name is John. I am interested in hiring your services for dinner and company next Friday evening. Would you be available?"
      

2. Communicating Needs and Expectations
   Be clear about what you expect from the meeting, but do so respectfully and without demands. Explain your needs and desires, allowing the sex worker to determine if they can meet them.
    

3. Respect for Rates
   When a sex worker communicates their rates to you, avoid derogatory comments or statements that show a lack of appreciation for their work:

   • Avoid: "That's too expensive!" or "It's not worth that much."
   • Instead: "I understand, although it's currently beyond my budget."
      

4. Respectful Negotiation
   If the stipulated price is beyond your reach, you can try to negotiate respectfully. Ask if it's possible to get a discount or adjust the services:

   • Proposal: "Unfortunately, my budget is a bit more limited. Could we agree on a reduced rate in exchange for less time or fewer services?" Remember that any negotiation must be accepted by both parties, and if an agreement is not reached, it is important to maintain respect.
      

5. Appreciation of Time
   Acknowledge and thank the sex worker for the time they invest in responding and considering your request:

   • Appreciation: "I greatly appreciate your time and consideration of my request."
   • Respect for Time: "Thank you for taking the time to respond to me, I understand your time is valuable."
      

6. Continual Respect
   Remember that sex workers are people and should be treated with dignity and respect at all times. They are not objects or toys and deserve to be valued for their professionalism and dedication.
    

7. Advance Cancellations
     If for any reason you cannot attend the agreed appointment, it is crucial to notify well in advance to cancel:

   • Advance Notice: "Please give sufficient notice if you cannot attend the appointment. Your consideration is very important to us."
      

8. Do Not Overuse
   Communication Sex workers are not virtual companions or providers of free sexting. Avoid asking for too many photos, personal information, or unnecessary conversations without the intention of hiring a specific service:

   • Clarity and Conciseness: "Our communication should be clear, direct, and concrete to streamline and harmonize our time."
   • Paid Sexting and Conversations: "If you want to engage in sexting or have prolonged conversations, this should be specified and contracted as a paid service."
      

9. Advance Payment
   It is crucial that payment is made before starting the service. Place the money on the table and show it clearly:

   • Payment Process: "Before starting the service, place the agreed amount on the table and show it. This ensures that both parties comply with the established agreement."
      

Conclusion: The key to a positive and respectful interaction with sex workers lies in clear communication, appreciation of their time and work, and maintaining respectful treatment at all times. Establishing these guidelines not only improves the experience for both parties but also contributes to a more professional and humane relationship.